What is the tradition in the US when u first go to see a baby? I had no clue and just went to the store to buy - new born baby wishes card
a map and asked the lady what she thought would be appropriate to include reference to a nice circle with blue ribbons and a teddy bear on her subject, "is a boy" written on them. I thought that if they do it here. When I went to the parents to meet the child to see their faces of surprise, the card is empty? not a gift card or Smth? cutsy and left the circle in one corner where I left .... Then, if I do not know someone said in jest, that my card was left empty (only had my wish in it) "what have I done?" that's when I realized I had to do something other than a gift for parents, more concrete and practical ... I feel so bad, how can I solve this problem? If there is a way ... Thank you!
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Now, it is customary to give a gift of some kind ... but not mandatory. If your friends think that your prayers were not enough, then are indiscriminate - not you.
Always good to have a meal or a gift card for pizza, or offer to do the dishes, walking the dog, taking out the trash to do - something useful and practical. Yes, that was when someone came into my house w / a diaper bag, but I appreciate the most when my aunt has invaded my kitchen w or purchases, and made 2 trays of lasagna - eat all of us, then, and a to freeze and others share, but for the next week. And when my cousin of 16 years would give us something ... she suggested, "dog sit" for 2 weeks. I liked a lot more than nice clothes that my daughter never worn.
I think some people are materialistic ... Also ungrateful!
If you really want to do it, making food, a casserole or something. Do not go and buy a precious gift!
Do not feel bad though. Your thoughts and good wishesis that they are more than enough for me:)
Do not feel bad! You are obligated in any way or form, give them nothing! If you give a gift, but how many of them to be selfish and hard to expect everything!
I would be happy with the card for me that much, because on the way and have thought about my baby. This map is one thing that I could take you and show my child when he grows up.
I think I should think about. If they say something that only they know how to give birth, is not equal to the gifts.
Wow, I do not know how to fix it!
Who was rude of your friends! I can not imagine they want money from visitors, with a baby! You can create a security guard at the door of the cargo for the population before too! Crazy! The card was very nice! This is a big advantage, I can not imagine it will, nothing more. I was happy, my friends, see my child with whom to share with them, it does not matter if they brought something for us!
It was rude of them to wait for the money, please do not think this is an American train!
It is likely very unpleasant for people to get a little more. I mean, it must thnakful even got the card. It's just that many people around the world ingrate, no matter what you do for them. But he was always very nice of you to do what he did.
You have done nothing wrong and there was nothing to correct. You just go to some very inconsiderate friends.
You do not have them something, and your card is more than adequate in this situation.
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